HOMY: Hookup Older, Marry Younger. A Guide to Winning as a Passport Bro.

I want to share some insights on a two-step life optimization journey for young aspiring Passport Bros. There’s lots to unpack, but the gist is that establishing casual relationships with older women while you are in your 20s can be beneficial, and sets you up for success for eventually going overseas and marrying younger when you’re ready to settle down. This strategy, dubbed “Hookup Older, Marry Younger” can be a game-changer for those looking to eventually settle down with a traditional non-Western woman. Two easys steps, one winning strategy.

Phase 1: Hookup with Older Women (But Why?)

Experience and Mentorship

Getting involved with mature women could be seen as a form of practice. Hold on: I’m not just talking about sexually, although that’s a huge part of it. When a man is in his 20s, he should be primarily focusing on building his career, developing his style, and honing his emotional intelligence. Traditionally dating would be a tremendous distraction towards these aspirational goals. On the other hand, having relations with older women can provide him with the experience he needs in and out of the bedroom. Older women, especially those who are attractive and keep themselves in good shape, are often at their sexual…